I thought I was fairly straightforward earlier this year
when I outlined my personal social media guidelines with regards to connecting
with me on Facebook and LinkedIn.
Apparently I wasn’t as clear as I’d hoped, so let me go
over it again.
I realize that there are now roughly 1.4 billion Facebook
users and 380 million members on LinkedIn, but that doesn’t mean that every one
of you has to attempt to “friend” me or connect with me.
My rules are simple – if I don’t know you, don’t contact
me in an attempt to join your social media network. It’s not that I’m
virulently anti-social or just plain mean – although you might receive a
slightly different spin on that claim from those who know me – it’s just that I
don’t want to be among someone’s 1,356 friends on Facebook or another’s goal of
reaching 1,000 connections on LinkedIn. There’s absolutely no way anybody can
be on a first name basis with that many people. Unless of course you’re a
career politician and it’s getting to be donor time.
But I digress.